Domestic Violence & Abuse

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Comment by mike service on January 23, 2011 at 2:33pm

you were created in the image of God to be loved  God is love not abuse and would never abuse anyone  

it is very hard being a step parent i am step father to nyasha 12yrs old yes she has done many things to me all the lies etc   she never had a relationship with her natural father  and took it out on me   God has bought us through    listen to him and do what he tells you too   he will guide you be not afraid he will keep you watch over you

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Comment by Joanne Popowick on January 23, 2011 at 1:28pm

  I have been abused,this is so hard to share but God says"it's better to share and get it out of my way" so I will.

   I am in an unhappy marriage,I  got married June 2002 and had our son  august 2002, everything was ok,he had two sons of his own so I became a stepmother.I did for the kids,cleaned their rooms, tended to laundry, helped with school problems etc.

  Once I had my son,things so changed.The eldest{the ring leader if you will} wanted me gone,he hated me for whatever reasons,he  was free with his filthy mouth and  yes I stood ground but once we moved to TX,things went from worse to worser.

  Their bio mother was no help,she caused trouble, told the two boys never to call me mom,she even went as far as calling people making false statements and  everytime it was dropped,mostly against me because both kids lied to her about me just to get rid of me and cause trouble.

   They told someone I refused to let them talk to their mother when we moved here,It wasn't me,it was their own father so I took someone saying mean things to me and falsly accussing me and i broke down in the car on the way home,I told their father what was said and the eldest just smirked and said"haha I got you in trouble".Thats when everything went to  worser.

   They would lie to people at their churches saying i didn't feed them,which was a lie they just didn't like what I made, they'd lie to kids at school about me,they had a list on how to rape a woman,they beat me, pushed me into walls, stormed into my room an dheld me down{wait I need to cry as I ma writting this}......they lied to their own father and said"we didn't do a thing shes lying" mean while cops had been to the house and inlaws,they shouted nasty disgusting things at me,they threw food soda,whatever they could at me,they left me with black and blues, tried  controlling me,wouldn't let me leave the house when i was sick so theyt ook my glasses and hid them,they went as far as  doing something disgusting in frount of me na dmy son on thanksgiving.

  They'd say"go ahead tell dad, who do you think he'll believe".I had oen arrested for ten days for whipping me  with a phone wire and destroying the house with cleaning supplies,he got 1 yr probation, community work and that was it,There wa sno justice for me,he couldn't lay a hand on me so he got his brother to do it for him, the kid threatened me non stop, curse me rip phone wires out so i couldn't call anyone for help, took over my computer an dtheir father was aware of it all and did nothing,it was as if he was abusing me too.

 The middle kid whipped my back with a dog leash,I still suffer pain in my back as a reminder.I left twice, once to a shelter for about a month to get help,then seperated for 5 months,I wanted a divorce.I wanted to work things out, the kids were leaving for germany,they had it planned to stay with their bio mother in germany but of course their fathe rblames me saying"they won't come back if your ehre" well then what was the sense of working things out for?

   I am so unhappy now, my husband and I are so far apart, he belittles me sometimes, he'll say things that aren't true and falsly accusse me of things or place blame on me,i ignore half of what he says because I know the truth.He said once I made up all the abuse to get his kids in trouble, no I didn't ask the police who came here in one yr at least 65 times,ask your parents, sisters all who came here for me.

  Now,I have found God, eh came to me many tiems over, he knows i am not happy, he has told me"joanne your worth something, you don't need to be unhappy, your a strong, loving and caring person who can go on if you want to,you are a good mother,you put your son ahead of you always,theres someone waiting for you, you just need to  be guided".

  I live in a no intimate marriage going on 9 yrs, thats one of teh reasons i am leaving and unhappy,I need to be held and hugged and sometiems told when i look  terribel that I look pretty.

  Happiness won't coem to me I have to go to it.

Both boys aren't here anymore but I still suffer ptsd and nightmares and fewer now,I  am still frightened of the dark,my so called husband is what he is, he has trheatened to leave me at wal mart if i don't hurry and sometiems has left teh store when he is doen and sits in his car,nice ,but when i did that to him he  lost it and yelled at me, theres never a happy  middle, so i am moving out and moving on.thanks for letting me share.

 

Comment by mike service on August 26, 2010 at 12:18am

you will all overcome as you walk with the master he will bring you to victory yes i have been verbally phyically mentally emotionally sexually abused but jesus is bigger than all that when you are born again you have christ in your life living inside of you and he has overcome the world completely he will work it all out for each of you and lead you to total victory in your lives let him lead you give him your little hand and let him lead you

Comment by BRENDA NERO-WILKINS on August 23, 2010 at 2:27pm

I'VE BEEN THROUGH VERBAL ABUSED WHEN I WAS MARRIED AND SEEMS LIKE I'M STILL SCARED.

Comment by Thomas Byrd on July 10, 2009 at 6:31pm

I have never been sexually abused, but I was beaten to unconsciousness by our mother. Actually she beat all 4 of us to this state. Then growing up in the community, I had to fight my way from elem. school all the way through high school; then once in the Navy I fought also too, then when I joined the Army I also fought too. And then 15-years after I got out of the Army, things started to happen to me and didn't know or think to go into the VA doctor's to be looked at. So I have what is called T.B.I. If all would keep me in prayer I would greatly thank-you.

Comment by mike service on March 29, 2009 at 1:45pm

Well when I was young there was a room in our house I was afraid to enter
I did not know why and all life I had a recurring nightmare
And I always awoke wondering what and why
When I first started school I also had to go to speech therapy
You see I couldn’t speak properly
I spoke really fast because if I didn’t
People would realize I stuttered and stammered
Then one night I asked my best friend Jesus why
Why do I have this nightmare is there something I have to face

Show me please and give me the grace to face it Lord
Well that night I went to sleep and then it came again
But then Jesus appeared and took my hand
He said we would go in together so in we went
I saw a picture of Granddad on top of me
And I then in an instant why I could never remember him
I awoke in a rage and wanted to find his grave and smash it to pieces
For what he had done to me when I was five
But after a day or two I knew I had to forgive
So throughout the day I prayed and forgave and blessed him
You see I was the only one held captive
Full of hurt and bitterness
As the days went by I pressed through
And then we dealt with all the other family members one by one


Then they had me thrown out of church I had been framed
For AL sorts and I was innocent

I decided to end it all and take my life
But the day I went to do it a friend rang up
To say I know what you are going to do and don’t
God loves you mike you are so precious to him

Then that night I had a dream and
Jesus came into my room and stood about ten feet away
He looked at me and said I need to hug you to set you free
I screamed and yelled no I don’t like hugs I hate them
He said once again you need me to hug you and set you free
I yelled and screamed again at him
You see he was wearing his robe around his waist and was bare chested
And screamed all the more

I awoke and sobbed and sobbed as I realized I had turned him away

I fell asleep again and had the same dream again
This time I held my hands out
And he came over and scooped me into his arms
He kissed me and told me how much he loved me
He told me every thing that was good about me and not one bad thing

He told me how he had given me all my gifts and talents
And how he loved to see me use them
When I awoke I was drunk on love
Such peace I had never known
About three days later my voice changed
And I lost my stammering tongue
Praise god he set me free

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