WHAT DO WE REALLY MEAN WHEN WE SAY 'I CARE"?

WHAT DO WE REALLY MEAN WHEN WE SAY TO SOMEONE WHO IS HURTING, 'I CARE"? DO WE REALLY CARE WITH OUR HEART? OUR COMPASSION, OUR LOVE/ OR ARE WE SAYING I CARE, BECAUSE WE ONLY WANT TO HEAR THEIR SAD TALE OF WOE, SO THAT WE CAN FEEL BETTER ABOUT OURSELVES, NOT REALLY CARING WHAT THE OTHER PERSON IS GOING THROUGH, THE TRUE CIRCUMSTANCES, THE TRUE TROUBLES, ARE WE REALLY FOLLOWING JESUS EXAMPLE? IF JESUS MET US ON THE SIDE OF THE ROAD CRYING, AND ASKED OF US, CHILD, WHY ARE YOU WEEPING, AND DECIDED TO SIT AND LISTEN FOR A WHILE, AND AFTER WERE WERE SPENT WITH OUR TALE, AND OUR TEARS, WOULD HE THEN SAY, WELL THAT IS SOMETHING YOU HAVE TO WORK OUT ON YOUR OWN, OR WELL I GOT THIS THAT HAPPENED TO ME, THEY NAILED MY HANDS AND FEET TO THE CROSS, THEY DRUG ME THROUGH THE STREETS, THEY SPAT ON ME, MADE ME A CROWN OF THORNES TO WEAR, BECAUSE I AM A KING, AND I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL, BECAUSE: OR THIS AND THAT, NO HE WOULD NOT, HE WOULD LISTEN AND HE WOULD BE PATIENT AND EVEN IF HE COULD NOT FIX IT, HE WOULD SAY MY CHILD I AM HERE, AND HE WOULD REALLY MEAN IT, DO WE?OR ARE WE JUST SAYING HURRY UP AND FINISH SO I CAN TELL YOU MY SAD TALE, IT IS NOTHING COMPARED TO YOURS BUT JESUS WOULD SAY,  TOGETHER YOU AND I CAN GET THROUGH ANYTHING, WHICH IS WHY HE SAID CAST YOUR CARES ON ME, FOR I CARE FOR YOU, JESUS FRIENDSHIP TO US IS NOT WISHY WASHY I AM ONLY YOUR FRIEND BECAUSE OF WHAT YOU CAN DO FOR ME, OR WHAT YOU CAN GIVE ME, OR BECAUSE YOU KEEP ME PUMPED UP, WITH PRAISE FOR WHAT I CAN DO, OR I AM ONLY YOUR FRIEND IN GOOD TIMES, BUT WHEN THE BAD TIMES COME, I AM LIKE THE WIND WHOOSH!! I AM GONE, IF GOD CAME BACK TODAY IN THE FORM OF MAN HE WOULD BE CRUSHED, IF WE WERE REALLY LIVING BY THE BIBLE, MAYBE THERE WOULD NOT BE SO MUCH HATE, DISCORD, POVERTY, PAIN NOR SORROW, EVERYONE SITTING AROUND WAITING FOR JESUS TO COME BACK WHAT ARE YOU HEAR FOR? ARE WE NOT TO BE EXTENSIONS OF HIM? IS IT NOT FOR US TO HELP OUR LONELY, OUR NEEDY, OUR DIFFERENT, INSTEAD OF SITTING BACK JUDGING JUST BECAUSE SOMEONE IS NOT WHERE YOU ARE IN GOD, OR THEIR FAITH  DOES NOT MATCH YOURS, WHO EVER  SAID GOD MADE US ALL ALIKE, WHOEVER SAID WE ARE ALL ON THE SAME JOURNEY, WHOEVER SAID THAT THERE IS PERFECTION IN THIS LIFE FOR WHO AMONG US IS PERFECT, ME I WOULD PERSONALLY LOVE TO MEET THE PERFECT MAN, AND THE PERFECT WOMAN, WE ALL WONDER ABOUT GOING TO HEAVEN SOMEDAY, OH YES WE SHALL ALL GO, THAT IS NOT THE QUESTION OR THE WORRY, THE QUESTION IS, WHO WILL STAY?