To The Head !

                 Ephesians 5:25

           Husband , love your wives , even as Christ also loved the church , and gave himself for it ;

                 Colossians 3 :19

            Husbands , love your wives , and be not bitter against them .

                                              The relationship with family is one of the most important and sacred relationships because it was created after the family of God . Being that the husband is supposed to be the head of the family then husbands have to understand that God will look to them to be the provider , protector and the priest of his own family .However I am well award that in too many families that the husband is absent , which is another attack of the enemy leaving the wife or the mother to have to step up and be the head .

                                               Although this was not the natural order that God intended for it to be ,but because of his grace , mercy , and patience , he allows for it . I say God bless all the mothers and wives who had to step up and be the head no matter what their individual situations might have been . Until we come to understand and have this relationship with God on a very personal level then every other relationship cannot help but to suffer or fail .

                                               God gave Adam Eve to be his help meet because even God knew that it was not good for man to be alone . Could it have also been that God in his wisdom and because he wanted to replenish the earth , knew that Adam could not do this alone and certainly with another man ? It's just as true that husbands are called to be the leaders of their family , although it may not be this case in a lot of families today .

                                               Even with the husbands there the good part about this is none of what has happened in our families have caught God by surprise , which is why God has already prepared the way of Christ to come and clean up what man messed up . I say to every husband , every father , every son and every man that there is a place that God has just for you in the structure of your family .

                                                You have to realize first and foremost that your relationship with God will determine the relationship that your wife and children have with God . Thank God for all the women of God who are standing up to assume the role of the head , it's my sincere prayer that the husband will get into position that he have called for the husband . It's not until husbands understand the importance of his relationship with God that he will then line up with God's word's !

                                                                                Talk About That Love !!